New Zealand to Ireland with 2 children

Jude said: December 6 2011 9:19 AM

Hi,

I just purchased a Cares harness for long haul flight from New Zealand to Ireland with 2 children on my own. I wanted to avoid lugging the bulky carseat around airports esp as I haven’t got the spare hands! Air NZ specify the cares harness but unsure of Aer lingus, where can I get a letter for crew if I come across any problems?

Many thanks.

Ben @ Travel Toddler said: December 6 2011 11:07 AM 

Hello Jude,

Thanks for your CARES query and your order, the parcel will be shipped to you today.

The best approach with Aer Lingus seems to be the approach followed by a customer recently on the USA CARES facebook page. Back in Sept 2011 they said they emailed Aer Lingus saying they were using the CARES and received the following email:

New Aer Lingus statement:

AMSAFE CARES harnesses are permitted on board, but not as the primary restraint. The harness must be used in conjunction with the aircraft seat belt.

Harnesses by other manufacturers such as CRELLING require special Irish Aviation Authority authorisation. This authorisation requires some extra time to arrange, therefore passengers who require such a harness should contact Aer Lingus special assistance; specialassistance@aerlingus.com as soon as possible in advance of the flight. The make and model of the harness should be included along with details of any other particular requirements.

The CARES customer then received a further Aer Lingus email:

And my final follow up-Received an email this morning from aer lingus stating CARES is permitted and that cabin crew have now been made aware and given instruction on how to use it. This is from the Aer Lingus head office in Dublin.

It’s also worth noting that Aer Lingus are not very clear with their car seat approval process either and seem to leave it at the discretion of the staff on the day. This is from their website:

Please be advised that with the number and variety of infant car seats available on the market it is not possible for us to guarantee in advance that any particular seat is suitable for use. In the interests of safety, Aer Lingus reserves the right to refuse permission for the use of certain types of car seats on the aircraft or during take off and landing. In these circumstances the infant must be carried on the adult’s lap (under 2 years) or in a seat using the standard lap belt (2 years and over). Safety is always our first consideration.

We’d recommend taking a copy of our airline list (attached) that shows what our local airlines say on their website about the approved use of CARES. Also, try and have it noted on your booking that you intend to use the CARES harness. Also, show any curious airline staff the tag on the CARES unit that states FAA approval and “Approved for Aircraft Use”.

Hope this helps, have a great trip.

Kind regards

Ben

Bhutan with a 2 year old

Amanda said: September 5 2011 11:41 AM

Hi
We would like to travel to Bhutan for 10 days in 2012 with a 2 year old – are you able to recommend any tour companies for us to do an individual/personal tour with?

Thank you
Amanda

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: September 8 2011 2:06 PM

Hi Amanda,

our family would also love to go there! My husband recently saw a documentary on Bhutan and has been talking about it ever since (in fact he’s talking about it right now)!

I cannot personally recommend any tour companies, but have put a shout out on our Facebook page. I’ll let you know if any of our readers have any ideas. I’ve listed a few suggestions which you may like to look at, all of them profess to have a love for the country and a unique perspective to share;

http://www.bhutan.com.au/

http://www.wendywutours.com.au/

http://www.flowertravel.com.au/

http://www.mysecretbhutan.com.au/

I wondered if it may also be worthwhile contacting the Australian – Bhutan Friendship Association? They may be able to recommend someone or provide answers to any questions you might have during your planning. The website has some good information too, under “Bhutan facts”

Then there’s the Bhutan consulate in Sydney;

Consulate of Bhutan in Sydney, Australia

78 Louisa Road
Birchgrove
New South Wales 2041
Australia
Phone:
+61-2-9810-3909
Fax:
+61-2-9555-1254
Email:
bhutan@harrisfarm.com.au

A little about Bhutan

For those of us needing a refresher, here’s some general information about Bhutan – the last Shangri-La (source);

“Bhutan is one of the most isolated and least developed nations in the world. Kingdom of Bhutan is known for its culture, architecture and archery, but in many ways, it has remained a mystery until half a century ago.
The serene country, is cradled between its neighbours China to the north and India to the south. Its lands include subtropical savannahs to forests, to the Himalayas guarding the country’s eastern border.

Its isolation, domestic policies and decision to limit tourism have helped to protect its culture and its natural beauty. These are among the reasons it is referred to as the Last Shangri-la and the crown jewel of the Himalayas.

On the other hand, the Bhutanese call their country Druk Yul, Land of the Thunder Dragon, because of the violent snow storms.”

Thanks for your question, it seems like a magical place. I would love to hear more about how your trip goes!

Regards,

Donna

Further information

http://www.tripadvisor.com/ShowTopic-g293844-i10038-k2245316-l13911101-Travelling_with_a_toddler-Bhutan.html

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/thorntree/thread.jspa?threadID=483284

http://www.wwfblogs.org/travel/2010/10/11/10-interesting-facts-about-bhutan/

Taxi regulations for kids in Australia

Peter said: August 31 2011 5:18 PM

toddlers in taxisIt seems that Australia has the toughest car seat law and requires car seats to be used even in taxis. We are planning to travel in Australia with our 4 years old during Xmas. We won’t be renting a car when we are in Sydney and Melbourne. After checking around, it seems that it was rather difficult to find a taxi with car seats and even if they provided car seats, they would start charging from their car seat depot until getting to the destination. As carrying a car seat would be quite a nuisance, I am wondering if the “RideSafer Travel Vest” (http://www.safetrafficsystem.com/newsite/find.php) can be used in Australia in lieu of a car seat or booster. Thanks.

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: September 7 2011 5:29 PM

Hi Peter,
yes, there are tough laws here and your query is one which many parents wonder about (even those that live here)! However, there are exemptions for children riding in taxi’s if a carseat is not available (therefore, legally your child would not have to ride in a car seat if you did not have one available). The exemptions include;

* a child under one is travelling in a taxi and a suitable restraint is not available, however the child must not travel in the front seat

* a child over one is travelling in a taxi, and there is no suitable restraint available and the child occupies their own seating position.

* a child is travelling in a police or emergency vehicle

* a child has a medical condition or physical disability that makes it impractical to use a child restraint, and the driver has a certificate from a doctor indicating this is the case.

Source; RACV

I have looked at the Ride Safer Vest before and think its sounds great. However, I cannot see that it is approved for use in Australia. Having said that, it may seem unlikely that a taxi driver would stop you from using it! (I have never used one and would be really interested to hear about it if you decide on getting one).

As you mentioned, a car seat would be a burden and bringing your own from overseas is unlikely to meet Australian regulations anyway. If you decided to consider a carseat you may choose to buy a cheaper car seat here and then donate it to a charity when leaving. Other alternatives could be to consider a “booster cushion” seat with a seat belt adjuster such as a Safe Fit. These would be a bit less bulky than a car seat and provide more protection than a seat belt alone. There are also reputable hiring companies, but again, when you aren’t hiring a car…

Also, have you seen the Trunki Boost A Pak? I love these (note; they aren’t approved or sold in Australia). The back pack style may suit you as they seem ideal for travel. This allows the child to be lifted up in the seat and move the seat belt away from the neck.

Since taxi’s in Australia is an area of interest to many, I’ll now include some general information below;

A note on Child restraints in Australia

All child restraints used in Australia must comply with current Australian standards – one of the main features of which is the use of a rear strap to an anchor point. Australian child restraint standards are some of the most stringent in the world and most overseas child restraints do not comply with these standards and cannot legally be used in Australia – this includes restraints from countries such as the UK and USA.

Travelling in taxis in Australia

Taxi drivers are not required to provide child restraints or booster seats.

All taxis should have the correct anchor point for fitting the restraint, but it is always advisable to call the taxi company in advance to check.

Taxi companies may be able to provide child restraints if they are given sufficient notice. A surcharge is the norm for the hire of the child seat and you will often have to pay for the taxi to collect the seat from a depot or taxi company’s headquarters. Your journey will be metered from the carseat collection point, to wherever you are picked up and then onto your final destination. Check all charges with your taxi company in advance and ensure that you book your vehicle well in advance (at least an hour).

The rules for travelling in taxis with very young children do vary from state to state within Australia. It is advisable to check with taxi companies when booking and to order a child seat in advance. Customer service desks at airports (both within Australia and internationally) should be able to assist you with booking taxis with childseats if you are not able to pre-book a taxi prior to your arrival.

Finally, Peter and family – all the best for a fabulous holiday! Sydney and Melbourne have some great attractions for families. I hope some of these ideas are useful and would love to hear what you decide. Enjoy the rest of your planning and let us know if we can help further.

Regards,

Donna

 

Other relevant Travel Toddler articles:

Child Restraints and Taxi’s

Transport in Bali and Cuba

 

Other useful links:

Kidsafe

Roads and Traffic Authority (RTA)

NRMA

Bub Hub

Vic Roads

Christmas markets cruise for kids?

Andrea said: July 17 2011 4:55 PM

Christmas markets of Munich By Birge Amondson, About.com Guide

Hi Donna

Just wondering if you know of any cruise lines in Europe that do the Christmas Markets and will take children aged from 2 and 3 quarters to 8?

Thanks

Andrea

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: July 22 2011 4:29 PM

Hi Andrea,

its lovely to hear from you again. We hope your last European trip went well and are really pleased to see you’re planning another (also a little envious)!

The Christmas markets sound like a ‘must do’ activity for the bucket list and I think experiencing this when the kids are young sounds like lots of fun. However, I’m  unsure of a specific cruise line to recommend.

History of the Christmas Markets

For those of us who know little of the Christmas markets, I’ll give a brief rundown of their background…The Christmas markets are a tradition believed to have

Entrance to the Berlin Christmas markets

started in Germany in 1434 and are now held all over Europe. There are genuine market stalls where visitors can search for handcrafted gifts while soaking up the Christmas traditions (such as Santa, nativity scenes and carolling). And for us in the southern hemisphere it is a way of experiencing the best of a European winter Christmas.

I love the tradition of the Christmas markets and it seems those in Germany may be the best to check out, with Nuremberg being the most famous. They run from late November to the third week of December or later, depending on the location. Another thing about sticking to a German cruise is that you may be able to select a shorter option (and can make an exit if it isn’t suiting the kids) while still able to see the ‘best of the best.’ Some families prefer a longer cruise and incorporate sight-seeing with the Christmas markets. Parents report they are able to have some adult time on shore, while leaving the kids in the care of experienced workers.

Cruises for Families

I would suggest checking the Cruises for families website (type in destination Europe, date November or December 2011) and have a look at the types of cruises it suggests. It will allow you to get a feel of your ‘ideal’ Christmas markets family cruise. If you find one you really like, it is then a matter of tracking down this or a similar through a local (Australian) agent ot tour operator. (Generally you cannot book with an overseas operator. Australian cruise enthusiasts are constantly unhappy that this invariably means paying more for the same cruise than our European counterparts).

Further Reading

Europes best Christmas markets

Taking teens to the Christmas markets

Christmas market cruises

Christmas market tour search

Christmas market cruise locations

Australian Operators

http://www.globaljourneys.com/river_cruises/europe/europe/uniworld/uniccm.php

http://www.traveltheworld.com.au/Media/Press-Releases/Tauck-World-Discovery/Cruise-the-Christmas-markets-of-Europe-with-Tauck-.html

http://www.cruiseaway.com.au/special/uniworld-river-cruises-classic-christmas-markets-2?sd=09/12/2012

 

I hope you find this information useful. Let us know how you go, I’ve loved reading about these cruises and would love to go on one!

Thanks again for contacting us and sorry we can’t be of more help.

Kind regards,

Donna

Dad’s Malaysian trip with his 16 month old daughter

Gavin said: June 6 2011 4:55 PM
My 16 month old and I are flying from Australia to Malaysia to meet up with mum who is already there for a holiday.

I am stressing out mainly over checking in, going through customs and boarding the aircraft.  As I figure it, I will be trying to man handle an active child (who only knows how to run and not walk), large suitcase and carry on luggage. I am not sure whether my daughter should be sedated or me? I am flying from Brisbane with Malaysian airlines.

I have read your top ten tips and, although helpful I was hoping for something a little more specific to my circumstances.

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: June 8 2011 5:33 PM

Hi Gavin,

2-in-1 Harness Buddy

thanks for your question. It is understandable that travelling with the little one can seem a bit daunting, especially doing it on your own for the first time. There are a few things that you can think about which may help make things easier. Check out our business www.LittleGulliver.com.au we may have some products of interest to you…travelling with our first born is how the business came about.

Check in

Try to think of it as a holiday, even the airport! If you’re checking in on your own, consider hiring a trolley from outside the airport. That way you can have all your gear on it and a spare hand for the little one prior to check in. If you have some close friend or family who’s happy to help – bring them along to the airport. They could be an extra hand, up to the International Gate at least (and probably wouldn’t mind at all)!

Airport

  • Consider use of a harness. For a 16 month old a 2-in-1 Harness Buddy could be a good option - as it’s cute, cuddly and has a harness for a tail!
  • Also look at a popular backpack stroller called a ‘quicksmart’ it folds up small enough to go in the overhead locker on planes, so may help  you move the child through the airport and allow for a nap etc if neccessary. It might be handy too at your destination.
  • Another option could be a baby carrier, this keeps the baby close while you have your hands free. Only thought here is, that your daughter may be starting to be a bit heavy and you’ve mentioned she’s really active…

Activities

Look at things you will both be enthusiastic about during the trip. Would you like to do some colouring together or reading? For this age group, maybe consider things to chew and feel and maybe a board book. A favourite story book? A teddy? A Car? I really like the ‘chubbies’ range for smaller kids as they’re big and robust. Some might like a new cuddly toy with different textures they can touch. Don’t forget the simple things, singing ‘Twinkle Twinkle’ (you don’t have to belt it out -

Drop Buddy

maybe just sing it quietly in her ear), playing peek a boo, tickling – things you know she enjoys. Doodle Pro’s are really popular. And I think I’ve mentioned (in an earlier post) one time where my daughter and I spent a long time taking her shoes and socs on and off!

Eating

Consider if your child has any food requirements. It can be good to take more snacks than you think you might need. I have had experiences where we have been stuck on the tarmac or unable to land and had run out of food! At 16 months, those squeezIe fruit and vegetable packs are great (such as Rafferty’s Garden). Bananas and rusks are great. Does she have a favourite bakery item? Will you need bottles? Also, look at our Drop Buddy, Groovy Gripper and Disposable Bibs. See our mealtime category.

Nappies

 

Diaper Buds travel nappies

Our range of ‘Diaper Buds’ have been hugely popular. Each nappy is vacuum sealed so it takes up less space – great for travel (you can fit 3 Diaper Buds in the space of 1 normal nappy).

Sleeping.

Think about something cute like a Zoobie, its a soft cuddly toy which opens up to reveal a pillow and a blanket - all in one. Think about a neck roll (the monkey animal neck rolls are really cute). Also, do you have bedding organised at the other end? Can you hire a cot?

Seating

At this age your child is likely to be over 10 kilos. You could consider a CARES harness if you have booked or are allocated your own seat (for more see Little

The CARES in use

Gulliver’s Travel Help Desk). While the CARES is great for safety, (protecting the child’s upper torso, much like a car seat does in cars) – it does add the bonus of being difficult for a child to undo. Airline seat belts are, as you know, childs play to unbuckle! Also, I like to sit near the aisle, its easier to get in and out for the inevitable nappy changes. If you get 2 seats, I prefer the child in the middle, as on the aisle their heads, hands and feet are prone to hanging out and getting knocked by other passengers and trolleys.

On board

Don’t hesitate to contact your airline if you have any questions about onboard facilities. (Don’t expect great answers though, sometimes it pays to ring a few times). If you haven’t already looked the Malaysian Airlines flying with children section (kids corner) it’s here. If you know which aircraft you will be flying on check www.seatguru.com, you may like to be near toilets with change tables or located in a particular part of the aircraft.

Other blogs say…

http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/533657/flying-with-a-16-month-old/#

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/thorntree/thread.jspa?threadID=548067

http://parents.berkeley.edu/advice/going/long-flights.html

 

Anyway, these are just a few ideas. I think its good that you are thinking about it now, but once you leave, just relax and enjoy. Ask for and accept help when you are comfortable doing so, watch a movie, cuddle and do some people watching. Most of all I hope the 2 of you enjoy some great daughter and dad time!

Also, let me know if you have any other thoughts and enjoy the trip!

Regards,

Donna

Family-friendly accommodation in Sydney

Fabiana said: February 3rd 2011 9:59 PM

I am looking for a place to stay 4 nights with an 18 months old. Any tips of where in Sidney.

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: April 15th 2011 4:29 PM

Fabiana, sincere apologies that your email was missed! (We receive a lot of spam and your email got mixed up). I love Sydney and am happy to share a few thoughts…

For a short time in Sydney, definitely stay somewhere around the harbour, budget permitting. This will give you great access to most tourist destinations. I have always wanted to stay at the Park Hyatt myself, (hopefully soon)! Other popular spots to stay and visit include Circular Quay, Darling Harbour and The Rocks. Also, at 18 months, a lovely day out for your child could be a visit to Taronga Zoo and catching a ferry there is lots of fun. The views are magnificent! (Mind, the zoo is rather hilly, so a stroller may be rather handy for tired little legs). And of course you can’t miss the Harbour Bridge and Opera House!

For some extra information, including great sightseeing and accommodation tips, visit Sydney.com and Australia.com/Sydney.

Let me know if we can help you at all at Little Gulliver.

Thank you for your query and enjoy Sydney! 

Regards,

Donna

Bed rails for travel?

Heide said: April 6th 2011 9:59 PM

We are travelling to KL with our 2 daughters aged 5 & 2.  Miss 2 sleeps in a normal single bed but with a bedrail.  The hotel we are staying at cannot provide a bedrail for her (we will need on on each side) and we are having trouble hiring a set.  Do you have any suggestions?  We looked a DreamTubes but they do not allow the child to be tucked in. Thanks

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: April 8th 2011 4:43 PM

Hello Heide,

Thanks for your email, I’ve been happy to have a look and make some suggestions.

Dream Tubes

You’re right, the Dream Tubes seem like the best, certainly easiest, option. We have them on the radar for Little Gulliver, as we’re expanding our ‘Resting’ category. I hadn’t considered the tucking issue though. I must say outright that I haven’t used them, but I agree, certainly from the way they look there is no option to tuck under the tubes once installed. Its a shame as it seems like an otherwise perfect solution.

I would say though, generally, that the tucking wouldn’t bother our little ones. I would only worry about it for especially cold nights and would look at a sleeping bag or sleep suit to be safe. At least you should be OK there for your KL trip though (weather wise) and hotel rooms are generally nicely temperature controlled anyway.  Just a sheet and blanket (even tucked in at the bottom) should be enough. And you could adjust with warmer or cooler pyjamas to suit.

I’ve also read a number of reviews on the Dream Tubes and people certainly seem to like them. The only negative I’ve heard about is the cost. For anyone who hasn’t seen them, they are inflatible ‘tubes’ you zip into a bed cover. This ‘You Tube’ video shows how to install them…

Magic Bumpers

These are foam bedrails. I’m uncertain if they can be purchased in Australia (but wonder whether a Clark Rubber or similar could cut out a couple to size)? They fit under the fitted sheet and mattress cover, so you may have the same problem as with the Dream Tubes, hard to tuck in. They would also take up more packing space, whereas the Dream Tubes fold up to the size of a beach towel. Take a look at the link and have a think. More on Magic Bumpers here.

Mattress only

Then, I wondered whether there would be room in your accommodation to do a little rearranging at bed time…could you potentially put the mattress on the floor? She may not like it though if her sister is in the ‘big girl bed’ and fiddling with the mattress could get a little annoying and too much work for a holiday!

Compact Travel Bed

Regalo Travel Bed

Another thought is to consider a travel bed. They are either on or low to the ground, so worth a look. (Something like the Regalo could also be handy at home, when the inevitable sleep overs start)! I did a post about this you might like to check Travel Toddler post – Compact Travel Bed.

Other thoughts

I’ve also wondered about the Toddler Coddler ‘Bedbugz’, but its looks like it may work the same as the Dream Tubes. I would also say they’d be harder to find in Australia then the Dream Tubes, as they don’t seem to have a local distributor?  toddlercoddler_bedbugz

Then there’s the Regalo Hide Away Bed Rail, but even if you liked them they may be too large for travel and awkward to install at your destination.

Hiring

Yes, I see what you mean about the hiring problem. It seems like you can get everything except for a bed rail! Here’s an article about baby equipment hire in kuala lumpur. It does suggest one hire/retail baby shop which you may not have looked at. Another thought could be to check if you can buy an appropriate bed rail to meet you there and maybe donate it (if it’s too big to bring home) before you leave? I’ve heard of people doing that before with strollers.

And finally

We have our 2yo in a bed too. We haven’t needed the rails though as its a little junior bed, so low to the ground. We’re travelling shortly for the first time since he’s been out of the cot, so it’s been good to get me thinking about what we’ll do. With your daughter though, as she’s in a normal single bed now, she may be already used to the height of the bed off the ground. Maybe you could try her without rails and have an assortment of pillows and blankets on the ground around her just in case?

I hope this post has been of some help, I’d love to hear how you go. Enjoy the rest of your planning and let us know if we can help again!

Regards,

Donna.

Best time of day to travel

Mel said: March 27th 2011 8:22 PM

Hi! I will be traveling alone with my 19 month old son.  What would be the best time to travel?  I can get a 1am flight and I think I could get him back to sleep or one during the day?  He is a very active little boy so I am leaning towards a night time flight.  And I’ve checked, there are no flights around his bed time.  He does travel well in the car on long trips.  Any help would be great.

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: March 29th 2011 12:35 PM

Hi Mel,

a trip with your son sounds fun! I understand your thoughts on the best time to travel and it is certainly one we all wonder about. I guess its also worth giving some extra consideration when you’re travelling alone AND crossing a time zone, as you may be. 

My only thoughts about travelling with a small child at night is to consider the worse case scenario. If he can’t get to sleep - neither can you and you may both begin your trip worn out. Of course you may both board, drift off and wake blissfully hours later, its really hard to know!

Another thought is to consider your arrival time. Once I board a long flight I switch to the destination time and try and sleep accordingly. This always works for me and luckily I don’t suffer from jet lag. (I haven’t been able to try this with the kids though). The important thing is to consider what time of the day you will arrive at your destination -will you easily be able to make your way to your accommodation?

Of course, with either of these situations, you may not be able to have a choice, but when you do its something to think about.

To help with comfort on the plane take a look at the Zoobies (3-in-1 plush toy, pillow, blanket), animal neck rolls, disposable bibs and neoprene bibs. If you’re not using nappy pants, consider them as they are handy for a stand up change on the go. Try the ones that pull apart at the side (for travel they may be easier to get off if there’s a mess inside). The Little Gulliver Shop by age – Toddler category may be helpful. Also, I always pack a lunch box full of healthy snacks (after a history of flight delays). Make sure he understands only one snack at a time though (thats another story)! 

And really, there are so many entertaining things on planes, people watching, perhaps looking out a window and don’t discount the in-flight magazine for a conversation starter. Take a look at the Little Gulliver – Play category for some extra activity ideas. Consider some colouring, while our Doodle Pro’s and Aquadoodle’s are popular for no mess. The Create-a-scene sticker books are also great for some creative fun with mum.

I’ve included some other blogs that have talked about some of these issues, you may find them useful;

is there a best time of day to travel with a baby or toddler?

first-time-traveling-with-baby-is-there-best-time-to-fly-other-advice

best time to fly part 1

travel tips

I think, instinctively, parents know whats best for their kids. So, after giving it some thought you feel your son will sleep well on the 1am flight, then perhaps he will. Ultimately, you’ve got to be comfortable and then, all going well, he too will be relaxed and enjoy the trip. 

I hope you find this useful. I’ll also post your question on Little Gulliver’s Facebook page, some of the other parents (many of them frequent long haul travellers), may have some useful feedback.

Let me know what you decide and how it goes!

Regards,

Donna

Transport in Bali and Cuba

Nadia said: March 13th 2011 3:58 PM 

Sent: March 14 2011 10:00 AM

My baby will be 8 months when traveling to Bali and 14 months when traveling  to Cuba.

Do i need to take a baby seat with me, are seat belts installed in these countrys’ or is there other products that can help ensure the safety of my boy when traveling by car or bus without lugging around a cumbersome seat.( we intend to backpack around)

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: March 17 2011 10:54 AM

Hi Nadia,

Car seats and their world-wide requirements is a really common question and sadly so hard to find information on. My thoughts are though, that I’m afraid you can’t go past a car seat to ensure ultimate safety, especially as some say driving in those areas tends to be a bit “haphazard”. The best option may be to take a car seat with you for car travel, but buses are unlikely to have seat belts. 

International car seat laws

Now, the really annoying part for parents trying to do the right thing is that car seat standards are different the world over. Therefore, car seats approved for use here in Australia are unlikely to be “approved” for use overseas. So, is taking your own car seat practical anyway? In the 2 areas you are looking at it could be safe to assume the laws may not be too strict? And if you want to take a car seat on a plane that is a different problem all together. 

I’ve got a few thoughts though, on how to make this a bit easier;

Rear facing car seat

I guess at 8 months and 14 months your son would still be in a rear facing car seat (at between around 9 – 11 kilos). If you didn’t want to take your own car seat, consider getting a second hand one specifically for the trip or a budget, light-weight version?

There’s also the Sit n Stroll from Lilly Gold, these are quite popular overseas and have had some good reviews. (I noticed there’s one on ebay in Australia at the moment. Also, I’m unsure if it is approved for use in Australian airlines or cars, so may just be useful for overseas travel). It’s worth checking how easy it is to convert from a stroller to a car seat… 

The cars in both Bali and Cuba should have seat belts (but no bolts) so you’ll be fine installing a seat in a car, but as I mentioned the buses are unlikely to have seat belts (but you never know). Also, maybe look at a car seat which has a reclining feature since you may be on the road during sleep times.

Car Seat bags

Consider a car seat bag. Its an easy way to transport the car seat when not in use, there are some with wheels which make it easier to cart around. It also a great space to cram some extra nappies and wipes into. 

Stroller

If you’re considering taking a stroller, we use a Quicksmart for travel. Another great option is to get a cheap umbrella stroller, one of the $20 varieties. They do the trick, you wont mind it it gets damaged in transit and you can even leave it there if you’re finished with it. Again, some sort of stroller bag may be handy, depending on what you’re already taking. And, have you seen the Ride On Carry On? I’m still a bit on the fence with this one, but it is popular and I can see it would be useful if you need an extra pair of hands. It may not work with your style of backpack anyway?

Car seat alternatives

I have to say first, that there really is no alternative to a car seat. But take a look at these and see what you think. There are 2 products that I know of which are designed to improve safety in vehicles. Again, neither really replaces the car seat. One is the Safefit. It moves a regular car seat strap into a more suitable position for a child. Coupled with a cushion booster seat to lift the child up, it could work well. Again though, some cushion booster’s are recommended from around 18 kilos, so not recommended for your child’s size. Another is the Ride Safer Vest. I’m not sure, again whether these would suit you at 8 and 14 months and how easily you could get one. A blog I have found useful (though our youngest is now 2, sigh), Travels with Baby, has a great car seat alternatives post (bearing in mind its US based).

Some reading on Cuba

In Cuba, it sounds like the Casa’s, hotels and rented apartments are great options for families, while travelling on public transport works well. Apparently just allow extra time for travel, as many Cubans will want to stop you to see your child! We have family visiting Cuba as we speak, so I may be able to add some more feedback about travelling there at a later time.

http://www.babygoes2.com/

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/

http://www.travelpod.com/

http://www.tripadvisor.com/

Some reading on Bali

Car seats in Bali

http://www.balibaby.com/

http://www.tripadvisor.com/

CARES

Your son may still be too young to fit into a CARES flight harness for the travel you have planned for this year. It’s worth some thought for the future though, especially as you seem to be frequent travellers. And, of course, it and other handy Travel Essentials for Kids are available from www.LittleGulliver.com.au!

I hope I’ve been able to add some useful insights and information for you here. I’d love to hear what you think and how you go. They sound like great trips. There is a lot to think about re the car seat, so in the end, just go with what you feel comfortable with.

Finally, apologies for my delay in replying, I’m catching up after the labour day long weekend here in Victoria. We had some beautiful Autumn weather so all was good!

Regards,

Donna.

Child safety on board light aircraft

Phone query from Doug: March 1st 2011 

Little Gulliver had a lovely phone call from Doug, who pilots his own light aircraft. He is looking into safety on board when he takes his grandchildren on a trip. The CARES will be used for the older children, but what are the best options for the baby (then aged approximately 3 months old)? The aircraft does not have bassinets installed. 

Ben @ Little Gulliver said: March 3 2011 1:18 PM

Hello Doug,

Thanks for visiting Little Gulliver and your query on Tuesday.  I spoke to Donna, our chief researcher, and your findings are in line with our understanding.   

For children over 1, the only two child restraint options for use in all phases of flight are an Australian standard car seat (AS 1754) or CARES restraint.  Although, for an Aust. car seat to comply, the airline must be willing to provide the 3rd overhead tether belt which may then restrict the use of any tray table directly behind the child’s seat and also limit feet rest area for the passenger behind.  Each car seat will carry a different height and width dimension and this is why the airlines still have a policy of needing the exact make and model of the seat to cross check with the type of airline seat the child will most likely use. 

We do not have access to any lists of which carseat is suitable for which airline seat unfortunately.  For your particular aircraft, any Australian approved car seat that fits your seat configuration should provide a compliant seat for your baby passengers who are too young for a CARES.  It will need to be setup in the window seat or bulkhead seat so it does not impede other passenger’s ability to move about.  One brand we’ve seen mentioned is the Britax Safe N Sound Compaq car seat.  The other brands I’d seen mentioned are US standard only so not available for use out here.

Britax Compaq Safe n Sound

Additionally, airlines traditionally only recognise the car seat safety standard requirements of the country they are registered in, so US airlines will be OK with US standard car seats but not allow Aust standard ones on board.  This makes it very difficult if travelling across multiple airlines for any overseas travel.

For a baby flyer, the options are even more limited.  The infant lap belt is common on Australian airlines but banned in other parts of the world.  Evidence appears to show them as relatively ineffective in certain circumstances too.  A baby can be in a bassinet arrangement if under 3 months old, but you indicated this isn’t relevant for your charter craft.  A suitable car seat or the infant lap belt are the only approved item for such young flyers.

Here’s a couple of articles that may be of interest, apologies if you’ve come across them already.  Flying with babies – this is an article Donna published on our TravelToddler travel blog.  This article also links to a Flight Safety Australia article discussing babies on board (it was published in 2004, but there appears to have been little progress on the issue since).  We also list the links to the latest child restraint policies for most local airlines here.

I hope this helps, please let me know if I can assist with any other queries.

Kind regards

Ben

Flying 24hours with a Toddler

Chantelle said: February 21st 2011 9:39 AM

It will be our first time taking our 14 month on a plane to USA. Any tips for the such long flight would be a great help?

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: February 22nd 2011 1:02 PM

Hi Chantelle,

How lovely! At 14 months the little ones can be so different, some are up and about, on solids, breastfeeding or bottle. Travel tips can also depend a little on whether you’re travelling alone or with your partner. Other things can make a difference, such as whether you’re travelling on a holiday or visiting family (who may be able to have some goodies available for you on arrival). So, I’m giving a few general tips which I’ve found useful…

I’m guessing though that you are travelling with your partner, as you said ‘our first time’. This can make it easier, as that extra pair of hands is handy for a break for yourself, or even if your child needs a cuddle just as your meal arrives. On the other hand travelling alone with a toddler is ideal, as they really just want to be with you and its a great reason to enjoy some time together while you’re catered on!

You may have already looked at our travel with baby category and flying with babies article. It may be worth a look if you haven’t, even though you’ve moved into the toddler years. Also, think about whether you may prefer a bassinet on board and consider booking one if you can. Think about whether booking a bassinet means your seat won’t recline and if that is OK with you. (In most aircraft the row of seats where the bassinets are don’t recline). It will also depend on the weight of your child, you may find you’re past the bassinet range on your airline.

Seating-wise, some parents opt to book a seat for their child, even if they don’t need to for the under 2′s. Alternatively you may also find yourself with a spare seat, which will allow you some extra room to spread out. At 14 months your child may be around 10 kilos, in which case the CARES harness is also an option (recommended for use with children weighing between 10-20 kilos). Much like a carseat does in a car, the CARES is attached to the aircraft seat and provides upper torso support. Some parents like it as it is more difficult to wriggle out of than the aircraft seat belts!

You may like to think about the layout of the plane – is there a particular location you may like, such as closer or further from the toilets etc. www.seatguru.com is a helpful resource for that as it shows the layouts of the aircraft. I generally like to sit on the aisle, as it is easier to get in and out with the little ones.

I have always found a Baby Carrier (like a Baby Bjorn or Infantino) for boarding and disembarking the

Portable baby chair

plane really handy, depending on how big your toddler is now. Your child may be up and about already and too heavy! I also love the smart nappy bag which can be worn as a satchel or as a back pack – perfect for when you have baby in a carrier on the front! It’s really handy when travelling. Check out www.LittleGulliver.com.au for other handy baby travel items such as disposable bibs (very popular) and (new to the market) disposable change mats. Consider a breastfeeding blanket, portable baby chair and perhaps a Pea Pod travel bed or a zoobie (plush toy, pillow and blanket in one).

Some people mention medicating children and problems with their ears and the like. While it is always a good idea to have some pain relief with you, just in case, I have never found this to be a problem. When I first started travelling I gave them drinks if they looked anxious on take off and landing, but now we just sing songs or look through a book (our youngest has just turned 2).

Food-wise, consider a good insulated lunch box and drink bottle. Take more snacks than you think

Fridge to go

you will ever need. Then, at the appropriate time, pick one out or let them choose one only. I find mine always pick the really unhealthy thing first and when travelling I think that is OK. You may be treated to some great things on the plane though. Mine couldn’t keep the smiles off their faces on the way to Cairns once, they were given the biggest ice creams they had ever seen!

Nappy-wise, go for nappy pants. If they are wet only, I find they are so much easier to get on and off as they can do it standing up. Take plenty of wipes as they’re handy for all sorts of things. I also use disposable nappy sacs for clean up, to move any sort of rubbish out of your seating area quickly and easily.

Activity-wise, take something you know your child will like and I always get something new – more interesting for both of you! Maybe try an Aquadoodle, colour wonder, play doh, chubbies (cars, planes). For some ideas on travel activities see Ten tips for keeping a toddler busy on a plane and my Top ten travel activities.

Here’s some blog’s where mums have discussed their experiences on flying long haul with a 14 month old, they cover some great topics; Long Haul trips with 14 month old, Long Distance Airplane travel with babies, Flying long haul with 14 month old and Breastfeeding tips for travel.

I’ve sprinkled a number of Little Gulliver products through here, not as an intentional plug, but we’re got so many great products on board its hard for me to give tips without recommending them!

I think the most important tip though – is to relax and enjoy the trip! I know that sounds obvious, but I know with myself I get really wrapped up with the details and it generally works out OK anyway! Having said that, it doesn’t hurt to expect some discomfort – either a plane will be delayed or you get a headache or something…it is surprising how much more prepared for things you can be if you’ve considered it beforehand. And since you’ve emailed us, you’re obviously thinking about it, so are likely to be very organised!

Have a great time and let us know how you go.

Regards,

Donna

Which Greek island?

Dee said: February 17th 2011 8:22 AM

We are wanting to go to greece in July with our 12 month old girl. Could you suggest the best islands with easy access to beautiful beaches. Want to stay somewhere nice and like the idea of catching those big ferries. Would like to do lefkhada area as its beautiful. Also thinking of Santorini or folegandros if possible.

let me know what you think

thank you

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: February 17th 2011 9:47 PM

Hello Dee,

Sounds lovely! It will be a wonderful area to see and at 12 months old, your daughter may still be able to have some naps in her stroller while you enjoy the sights. And it looks like there will be plenty to wear her out! I like the thought of the easy packing too, just some summer outfits should do it.

You’re right – the Lefkada Island looks beautiful and as it is so close to the mainland, you could then venture out to islands, further away, without too much extra travel. There is some handy information on the area and different beaches here. I’ve also included a You Tube clip, its fairly long – but the views and the music will certainly get you in the mood while you plan your holiday!

I haven’t been to Greece (sadly with or without kids) but the Little Nomads team have put together a list of their ‘Top Five Greek Islands for Kids‘ and ’Santorini with Kids‘ which I think you will find useful. (Just keep in mind it is Canadian/American based, so travel times etc will be based on their location). I also checked my well thumbed through copy of William Grey’s ‘Travel with Kids’. He suggests that the Cyclades “are well suited to island hopping by ferry cruise ship or chartered yacht.” Since Santorini is one of the 39 islands that make up this area, it may be a good place for your ferry ride. 

I also love this thread from Lonely Planet, its from 2007, but does have some great detail on Folegandros with a Toddler you might find useful. Seems like you may need to stock up on nappies on the mainland, but perhaps its changed since then.

The only thing I wondered about is the timing. You mentioned July and there are some suggestions that the more popular islands are particularly busy in July and August. This is worth checking worth your travel professional for advice if it is a concern.

I’d love to hear how your planning goes and see some photos once you’re back. Enjoy!

Regards,

Donna

Compact travel bed

Karon said: January 7th 2011 3:58 PM

Hi Can you tell me is there anywhere in australia that sells a toddler travel n trundle or similar? we have 3 months overseas for our 4yr old and these roll up like  a sleeping bag compact for travel

thanks

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: January 9th 2011 3:54 PM

Hi Karon,

I haven’t seen the ‘Toddler Travel n Trundle’ available in Australia – they do look great though.

Other products to consider could be;

Regalo Travel Bed

KinderKot – they are recommended up to 4 years, so check whether it may suit size-wise, you may be on the upper limits. It has a self inflating mattress, so seems quite comfortable. The only negative feedback I have heard on these is they can be complex to pack up – but I imagine you could get quite good at it after a few months! I like the idea of this if the child may be sharing a bedroom with you, the cover sort of creates some privacy. But for the same reason, a four year old may not like the cover and feel a little squashed or closed in?

Kindy Kamper – They have a new ‘Kindy Kamper Traveller’, which suits up to 5 years. I have heard good things about these, but haven’t seen one myself.

Regalo Portable Child Bed – This folds up quite small and light, you could team it with a sleeping bag etc. It suits up to a 6 year old and comes with a fitted sheet and travel bag. If you are interested in this one, let me know as I am looking to stock them at Little Gulliver.

Aerobed Sleepover – This inflatable bed rolls up into a backpack and comes with its own pump. We have a bigger size and find them great. Just make sure it isn’t “played” on and take a repair kit. We use a pool repair kit on ours – we have repaired it once (near the valve) and have had no more trouble.

Venice

Dream Tubes - these are ‘blow up’ bed rails, which you could use of your child was in their own bed during the trip. At 4 your child may be in a single bed at home anyway (and be used to the height of the bed and not likely to fall out), but these may be handy on the road if you are using a junior bed at home.

I haven’t used any of these products myself, but certainly they are all worth a look. I hope you find the information useful and have a wonderful time overseas! Apologies for my delay in replying, we’re just getting back on board after the Christmas / New Year break.

Also, I’d love to hear what you end up deciding on and how the trip goes! It’s so easy to be jealous in this job…

Regards,

Donna

Can you travel on a bus with a 20 month old?

Lynn said: November 3rd 2010 3:10 PM

hello i am looking to catch a train and a bus with my 20 month old daughter and i am wondering if that is allowed or if there has to be some form of childcare restraint?

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: November 3rd 2010 8:22 PM

Hi Lynn,

That’s a really good question! It can be confusing, with the rigorous child restraint laws for cars and the lack of for trains, buses, planes and taxi’s…that being said though, yes it is allowed in Australia, sort of! 

Trains – I have not heard of trains having any restraints to date. There is no legal requirement that I know of. From a mums point of view, it is a lot of fun. My kids love it whenever we travel by train. My son was around that age when I first took him on a train, we had a window seat and I can still remember those wide eyes. He loved it!

Depending on how stable the train is travelling, you may feel more comfortable with her on your lap, or at least with an arm around beside you. I would also set your rules such as “we need to sit down on the train”. If you have a stroller with you, you may like to leave her strapped in it, if you are able to stand or crouch nearby (especially if she’s asleep)!

Strollers and trains – I should also mention the obvious things about strollers and train platforms, after the recent incidents…many platforms run downwards towards the tracks. If your stroller doesn’t have a wrist strap, grab one – they are a bit of peace of mind whenever you step out (trains or not).

Buses – These can be a little complicated and can depend on the size of the bus etc. Generally though, the law is that if a seatbelt is fitted the child (and yourself) should be seated using it. If the bus is under 12 seats an approved child restraint or booster seat should be fitted.

Sounds like you’ve got some fun outings ahead, take a camera!

Regards,

Donna

Some references include;

http://www.rta.nsw.gov.au/childrestraintlaws

http://www.kidsafevic.com.au/news-and-media-releases/114-pram-safety

Hiring Baby car seats in Sydney

Mary said: 18 September 2010 9:07 PM

Our daughter is flying from England in November with her 7 month old son. She requires a baby safety seat for the day she arrives in Sydney, and the same again when she leaves three weeks later. She has family members at each of her other destinations who can have baby seats fitted in their cars when she arrives, but Sydney is the the problem, because it will be for such a short time. Is it possible to hire one for one or two days at a time? She will be using private transport so doesn’t need to hire a taxi. I realise that that car will have to be fitted out to take a baby seat.  It will difficult enough travelling with a baby without having to carry her own baby seat, as well.

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: 20 September 2010 2:33 PM

Hello Mary,

That sounds great. I’m surmising you’re based in Australia and no doubt you’re a bit excited about seeing your Grandson (and his mum)!

Rear Facing Baby Car Seat

Since you’ve mentioned private transport, hiring a car + seat is out. But, yes, absolutely you can hire just a seat for a day or 2 at a time. (Of course individual places may have a minimum number of days hire, so you may have to pay for some extra unused days). There are a number of businesses that hire baby equipment. You could also hire other things, like port-a-cots, strollers and the like.

I’ve listed a few below that rent baby equipment in Sydney;

http://www.babyhire.com.au/

http://www.hireforbaby.com/

http://www.phdrentals.com.au/hire-baby-products.html

And a couple of Directory’s can be found here;

Kidspot’s Sydney Baby Hire Directory

Bubhub Nursery Eqipment Hire NSW

I’m sorry I can’t personally recommend any in particular, although I have used ‘Hire for Baby’ a couple of times. (It is a franchise business though and I have not used it in the Sydney region).

As your Grandson is around 7 months, the hire company will advise which car seat option will suit him – based on his weight. Baby capsules are most likely out and it will depend on whether he would suit a rear facing car seat or face forward. At his age, rear facing is likely to be the best option. Just check his weight before you make any calls.

Other things to consider when hiring the seat is delivery and installation. Depending on circumstances, they are likely to visit the house with the car and install a day or so before the baby arrives and pick it up the day after he leaves. It will also help if you can tell them the make and model of the car when booking. (I’m not sure why, but I’ve been asked this before)!

Also, with the private car, just make sure it is baby ready. It should already have at least 1 vehicle anchor point (to attach the car seat). Newer cars have these already. Otherwise, you can easily get 1 from a baby store or even a department store. Again, the baby hire organisation you use may be able to help on this. Vehicle anchor points are described by the RACV here more about vehicle anchor points

I absolutely agree that your daughter need not bother about bringing her own seat. Apart from actually having to bother with it, I think they are better off staying in your car – where you know where it’s been. The other thing is legislation. I am uncertain as to whether UK car seats would even be approved for use in Australia and may not be worth the worry.

Here is a couple of recent posts which you may find helpful;

http://traveltoddler.com.au/2010/05/flying-with-babies/

http://traveltoddler.com.au/2010/05/choosing-an-aeroplane-seat/

Let me know if there are other things you’re wondering about that I haven’t mentioned. Also, Little Gulliver’s Baby category is here, in case you need any ideas.

Best of luck with the planning and I hope you get lots of cuddles!

Regards,

Donna

Milk for Toddlers Overseas

Lynn : July 21st 2010 12:22 PM

Hi, my 2.5 years old son has cow’s milk twice a day. My husband and I don’t trust the fresh milk in Asia and we are thinking about taking full cream milk powder with us. We are going away for 3 weeks, just wondering if milk powder are good for my 2.5 years old son to consume for 3 weeks overseas? If it’s good, can you recommend any brand. Thank you.

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: July 22nd 2010 2:16 PM

Hi Lynn,

3 weeks in Asia with the family sounds lovely!

I can understand your question, as our kids are big milk drinkers too. I can’t give you any specific feedback on milk in this region, but a milk powder does seem a smart alternative to using fresh milk if you’re concerned. I’m wondering if you’re looking at using bottled water also? 

Normal powdered milk is generally considered to be low fat (even the full cream), so the fact that your son is over 2 means it is still suitable for him. Just make sure the milk powder is not a skim milk powder as this will not be suitable (until after 5 years of age).

The other alternative is to look at one of the specially prepared toddler milk powders. I can see that something like this (with the extra nutrients offered) may be good during travel. This can help if you’re not able to provide many of his favourite healthy meals and his nutritional needs may be higher than normal. If you do consider a toddler formula, I suggest checking the labelling. They can be quite high in sugar. Also, if it is in a large tin, you may like to carefully measure and decant what you may need (plus a bit extra) into a smaller clean container to save packing space. Just don’t forget the measuring spoon!

Just for the record though, I am generally against the toddler milks altogether (powdered or fresh) for kids with balanced diets. Choice (http://www.choice.com.au) provides 2 cautions which may be worth keeping in mind. Toddler milk (powdered or fresh) can;

a)  Contribute to constipation: so, if using toddler powder you may like to introduce it gradually leading up to your travel and gradually stop using it when you get home.

b)  Give toddlers a preference for drinking sweet milk rather than normal milk. Unlike infant formula, toddler milk is sweetened and often flavoured as well - just make sure your son brushes his teeth well before bed.

All this being said though, ordinary milk does have natural sugars and should be given only during meals or snack time anyway.

Another thing I have used (but only when travelling) is the formula in sachets. It can be convenient to use, as there is no need for measurements. Perhaps you could make one up in the morning (maybe take a plastic bottle with the water measure marked) if you have a fridge in your accommodation and are able to clean it thoroughly.

Another alternative is UHT milk. You may not want to travel with 1 litre cartons, but it may be handy to take a few of the small size. You could keep a couple in your day bag during transit and perhaps some straws (cut to size). Note, full size straws are handy for toddlers to use with bottled water when travelling too. 

The recommended daily intake (RDI) of calcium for your son’s age group is 500mg. Just 1 cup of full fat milk is 295mg of calcium, so I guess you needn’t worry that he will need a lot of milk everyday. You may be OK to cut back (unless he’s missing it) by supplementing his calcium with extra cheese. A 30 g piece of cheddar cheese gives 255 mg (cheese sticks are handy for travelling). And half a cup of baked beans has 40mg of calcium (the small tins of baked beans are handy if he likes them).

I also like the pre prepared squeeze fruit and veg in sachets. Once again, if he’s a good eater than these may not be necessary, but are a handy way to consume fruit if fresh is not available. Like fresh fruit, he can suck on them (so no need for a spoon) and they can be easily disposed of. I always take enough snacks for the duration of the trip in an ice cream type container. When travelling home you can then leave the container there and have more room in your suitcase for souvenirs (or duty free treats)!

I always think that travelling is the best time to make allowances and take it easy. Depending on how you think he will go with food, toddler milk during your travel period may be worth considering. Check a few brands next time you’re at the supermarket and evaluate their nutritional information.

I hope some of these thoughts may suit you and have given you some more ideas. Let me know how you go. I hope you make some great memories together! I’d love to hear from other readers too, on what they did travelling through Asia which may help us.

Regards,

Donna

Disclaimer

This answer provides general information. It is based on my own experiences and research and is not intended to take the place of medical advice. Please seek advice from a qualified health care professional if necessary.

Japan with Kids

Tani said: July 18th 2010 11:21 AM

Hi there

I was just wondering if you know of any blogs books or websites dedicated to travelling Japan with Kids? My husband and I are planning a 10day trip at the start of September with our four year old girl and 6 month old boy.

We are also doing so on a tight budget!

Any tips hints directions would be most appreciated!

Thanks

Tani

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: July 18th 2010 4:39 PM

Hi Tani,

What a wonderful place to visit! Timing wise I think your kids are at great ages, with your 4 year old able to get around well, while your baby is (probably) still not quite mobile. And travelling despite your tight budget is admirable, as so often we put things off until the ‘right’ time. One of the things I like about Japan too, is that you get to experience such a different culture and only have an eightish hour flight!

Here are some websites that may be worth a look;

I’m wondering whether a Japan guide book, such as those from Lonely Planet, Eyewitness guides etc might give you some food for thought (just without the focus on kids). Check your local library, they may be able to reserve some for you and give you an idea of which ones you like before buying. There are also a couple of books specifically based on Japan with kids which would be a good read. They may be a bit difficult to come by locally though.

They are;    

  • Japan for Kids: The Ultimate Guide for Parents and Their Children by Diane Wiltshire & Jeanne Huey  
  • Kids’ Trips in Tokyo: A Family Guide to One-Day Outings by Ivy Maeda, Kitty Kobe, Cynthia C. Ozeki & Lyn Sato

I think too, pack some disposable containers like Glad ware and some zip lock bags. If you’re staying at a hotel you may be able to grab some fruit, muffins or even toast from the breakfast buffet. This can be a great saviour on day trips and give you some options in a hunger emergency or if you come by a nice park for a play .

Tani, I hope there are some good things here that you may find useful. I’d love to hear how your trip goes and how you find your airline goes with the kids. Now I just have to get the green eyed monster off my back!

Regards,

Donna

CARES -tray tables, Qantas & Jetstar

Sharon said: June 29th 2010 10:06 AM

Do you know if the cares harness goes under or over the tray tables on the jetstar planes (domestic flight) as I think their setup is a little different to Qantas planes

We flew Qantas with it last time and while we had to argue several times that it was safe to use as the hostesses had never seen them before we were finally fitted ok, lucky we took the letter from CASA with us!

Do you have any tips for getting the info on the booking and then not having to repeat yourself a thousand times at the airport and again on the plane

Many thanks

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: June 29th 2010 2:13 PM

Hi Sharon,

I haven’t had any problems installing the CARES on Jetstar (I regularly fly domestic to visit family). I’ve also listed the related Q&A, from the manufacturers website, at the end of this post. 

That’s great that you were able to use it on Qantas. I’m sorry you had to be persistent though, that can be tiring! I have been using it for 2 years+, mainly on Qantas, Virgin Blue and Jetstar. I would say I have had no problems. When boarding I explain I have a CARES harness & I carry the CASA letter with my boarding pass. If they look bewildered I explain that it is fully CASA/FAA approved & show them the letter. I suggest that I will install it and invite them back to have a look at it then. Once they see it they have been fine (even complimentary) about it.

I would say though that the recognition with the flight crew is certainly improving. I have been told the flight crew are trained on its use, but it depends on when they last did the training etc. Also, we’ve successfully worked with Qantas to update their website, which now specifically mentions CARES. This can be seen here under Child Restraint Devices; http://www.qantas.com.au/travel/airlines/travelling-with-children-infants/global/en. Your next Qantas flight should be easier!

With relation to Jetstar, we recently had a Little Gulliver customer phone us, after some frustrating Jetstar phone calls. She was wanting to get the CARES listed on her flight booking, as you have mentioned. So, we put it to the test and phoned ourselves (we have a Jetstar trip coming up). We explained it is CASA/FAA approved and TOLD them to add it to the booking as we WILL be using it. This may sound a bit harsh, but as it is fully approved I feel confident in doing this. So, I guess my tip is to sound confident, stress that it is fully approved, manufactured by Amsafe and that you will be using it. Please add it to the booking! Having said that, I’ve used it and never (until now) had it added to the booking. But I can see that it could make it easier.

There is a happy ending though. We canvas the airlines regularly about updating their policies and websites to get the information out there and make life easier for us all. Jetstar has been our main focus in previous months and there is some good news coming up!  Watch this space.

Finally though, I have generally been able to use CARES without flight crew barely giving it a second glance. Sometimes I think their main concern is doing their final check (before takeoff) and noting that the waist belt is done up and that our bags are stowed correctly! 

I’ve waffled a bit, but I hope it helps & let us know how you go. Comments from other users most welcome.

Regards,

Donna

Here’s a copy of a Q&A on the Kids Fly Safe website. It can be located at http://www.kidsflysafe.com/faqs;

Q. Does CARES affect the operation of the tray behind the child’s seat?

A. No. Ensuring that CARES did not adversely affect the functionality of the tray was an important FAA criteria for certifying CARES. The tray is lowered for only a minute while the red webbing loop is adjusted around the seat, and then is closed and locked in place, covering up the CARES loop. CARES does not affect the functioning or use of the tray.

In some older style seats found occasionally on small planes, the tray fits into a plastic cavity with recessed sides. In these the CARES red loop, when pulled taut, could prevent the tray from closing securely. In this case, the CARES loop should be installed around the seat and OVER the stowed tray for taxiing, turbulence, take off, and landing. (See FAA Advisory Circular 120-87A “Use of Child Restraints on Aircraft”, which can be found in the “In-flight Documents” section of this website.)

Installing a CARES – step by step guide

Kylie said: June 28th 2010 8:37 AM

Hi

I am very interested in the CARES travel harness for my 2 yo. However it looks like the harness would effect the lowering of the tray for the passenger seated behind my daughter. Is this a possibility or has this been taken into account in the design?

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: June 28th 2010 2:42 PM

Hi Kylie,

Good question, it does look like it could effect the tray table & you’re not the first to ask! Actually, you do lower the tray table behind your child’s seat while installing, as you suggested. After the red strap is in place the tray table can then be closed again, over the strap. It actually doesn’t impede the use of the tray table at all and has been extensively tested by the manufacturer.

I’ve included a step by step installation guide below, with some photo’s. I’m hoping the photo’s make it easier to understand than my rambling! 

Also, you may be interested in a previous post which shows video of how it is installed. It can be viewed here http://traveltoddler.com.au/2010/05/installing-a-cares-video-2/. The installation part begins at around 1.40 minutes into the video.

 
Step One:
Seat your child in the aeroplane seat they will occupy.
Step Two:
Lower the tray table behind your child’s seat.
Step Three:
Slide the RED LOOP of the CARES restraint over the seat back, adjust the height of the RED LOOP so it is just above your child’s shoulders and tighten it. Then close the tray table (covering the Red Loop).
Step Four:
Place the BLACK SHOULDER STRAPS over your child’s shoulders. Slide both ends of the aeroplane seat belt through the loops at the bottom. 
Step Five:
Buckle the seat belt and pull it snugly across your child’s lap, as you normally would do. Then buckle the chest clip (adjust the height – so it fits comfortably over your child’s chest if necessary). 

That’s it, the CARES is installed! CARES is recommended for kids in their own seat weighing between 10 – 20 kilos and up to a metre tall. It is certified for used during all phases of flight; taxiing, take off , cruising and landing.

Anything I’ve missed or any other comments are most welcome.

Regards,

Donna

Fluoride in water

Laura said: June 25th 2010 1:25 am

I live in Indonesia and buy bottled water for preparing formula. Should I be supplementing with fluroide, and from what age? My son in 8 months old and gets perhaps 33% of his nutrition from formula, 33% breast milk and 33% solids.

Thanks!

Donna @ Travel Toddler said: June 25th 2010 1:48 pm

Hello Laura,

There is certainly much debate on fluoride! Where we live in Victoria, Fluoride is supplemented in our water. For you, I suggest seeking professional medical advice. This will ensure that your child is receiving an adequate amount of fluoride, based on your own circumstances. I’ve included a link to questions on Fluoride from our local government Better Health website, however it is not specific to babies and should be seen as a general guide only. 

I guess your son will be crawling around soon and keeping you very busy – enjoy!

Regards,

Donna

Link to the Victorian Government Better Health Website;

http://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/bhcv2/bhcarticles.nsf/ateaf/2377794?open

An excerpt;

Q: I live in an area of the state which does not have fluoride added to the water supply. What do you recommend for alternative preventive care, especially for young children?

 A: Fluoride is a naturally occurring element that is found in rocks, soils, water and plants….Fluoride supplements, including tablets and drops, are recommended only for those children at high risk of dental caries in a non-fluoridated area, and only under professional advice from your dental therapist, dentist or from Dental Health Services.

Disclaimer

This answer provides general information. It is not intended to take the place of medical advice. Please seek advice from a qualified health care professional.